“I also just stopped being shy about ’taking too long’ and let myself enjoy the experience.”

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"Finally being with someone who cares about my pleasure. We try new things, and we talk a lot. I can tell him where to move to improve it. He listens, learns, and responds to my body. Our trust is unmatched, and we both really want the other person to feel good."

"I didn't have an orgasm until my 20s, and it was only because my then-partner and I added toys. I thought I needed toys, specifically clitoral stimulation, to orgasm, but that wasn't the case. With my current partner, I stopped focusing on the goal of making my male partner orgasm and focused on the sensation and being present in the moment. That helped a ton."

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