“It was some very pretty boy in class that I took home and neatly f*cked on my bed upstairs.”

Note: The following quotes are NSFW (not safe for work).

The Grammy-winning rapper explores queerness in his albums Flower Boy, IGOR, and Chromakopia, famously rapping, "I been kissing white boys since 2004" on his track "I Ain't Got Time!" 

Jaden Smith once announced on stage that him and Tyler were dating, though I'm not sure if that was a joke or not to this day. However, he did say in an interview, "I like girls. I just end up fucking their brother every time." 

Comedian and writer/star of the critically-acclaimed gay film Fire Island is refreshingly open about his gay sex escapades in his stand-up and in several interviews. 

For this article, I'll go with my favorite: "The amount of sex and sex acts that I’ve seen on [Fire Island] in public, in front of an audience, is sort of wild. I’ve been to a 200+ person orgy on the island. And there’s nothing like watching a bunch of guys get railed as the sun is coming up over the ocean."

Booster married his boyfriend earlier this year. They are in an open-relationship.

The famous DJ/producer was a guest on Em Ratajowski's High/Low podcast and almost immediately into the interview, Ratajowski said, “We should talk about what you said to me last night, which is that you’re a little gay."

Following a little banter, Diplo said, "I'm sure I've gotten a blow job from a guy before." He goes on to clarify that he's gotten a lot of blow jobs, and while he can't recall a specific memory, he is 100% sure one of them was from a guy.

My follow up question to the "not not gay" DJ: How many blow jobs do you get to before you lose count (and memory)? Is there a training regimen? Can I be a part of it?

David Bowie aka Ziggy Stardust is one of the most iconic performers of all time, and his gender-bending and sexual fluidity was constantly a topic of discussion throughout his career in the '70s and beyond. In his 1975 interview with Playboy, he confirms his sexual history with men with no restraint:

"When I was 14, sex suddenly became all-important to me. It didn't really matter who or what it was with, as long as it was a sexual experience. So it was some very pretty boy in class in some school or other that I took home and neatly fucked on my bed upstairs. And that was it. My first thought was, Well, if I ever get sent to prison, I'll know how to keep happy."

He continued, "I've always been very chauvinistic, even in my boy-obsessed days. But I was always a gentleman. I always treated my boys like real ladies. Always escorted them properly and, in fact, I suppose if I were a lot older — like 40 or 50 — I'd be a wonderful sugar daddy to some little queen down in Kensington. I'd have a houseboy named Richard to order around."

While the Heated Rivalry star has been adamant about refusing to disclose or label his sexuality, he did post his longtime girlfriend on his main page pretty recently. Still, he's been super candid about his sex scenes and on-screen chemistry with co-star Connor Storrie. Showrunner Jacob Tierney revealed that when discussing possible actors for Ilya, Hudson told him, "The other guy was good, but Connor felt like he was going to pin me down and fuck me."

And he actually gets even more explicit in his account of how they filmed the sex scenes on the show:

"There’s a quick shot of him fucking me doggy style. I remember, I was like, 'Oh yeah, OK, get naked, have this rough sex. That’s kind of cool.' The only thing that day that I was left with was stomach pain because his genitalia is in a cock sock, a ballet slipper, but it’s lined up below my butt. They’re like, 'Do you want a pad?' There’s a crash pad that intimacy coordinators provide to so you can get a hard thrust. I was like, 'I’m good, I’m tough. I’m comfortable, cozy.' But he starts going and male genitalia is very obtrusive. It’s not discreet. We start filming and its crashing into into my balls, and he starts slamming me. My stomach is in a twisting pain. So that was the only part that I was like, 'Fuck, that kind of hurt.'"

I can't bring up Heated Rivalry without talking about the other lead, too. Like his costar, Connor Storrie refuses to disclose his sexuality or who he's sleeping with. I appreciate it since it's clear in his interviews that he's an actor who's committed into really treating the characters he plays with dignity and total comprehension. 

The way he talks about the sexual intensity between his and Hudson's character is incredibly intimate: 

"I think what really anchors them is not the sex itself but what's going on in their life outside of that and how that affects the sex. You see that shift after the Olympics and after winning the cup, you see how that affects their dynamic, and how that affects the sex for that moment, and then in turn, how that affects them after the sex like that.

I think it's about mapping their lives outside of [the sex] and how do they show up sexually and romantically because of this and this."

Gay sex is often reduced to an inherently salacious and purely physical act (this list included), so it feels nice to have it talked about so holistically. That's hot!

The social media and reality TV star has long been open and candid about everything from his personal opinions to his sexuality. In his memoir You're That Bitch, he retells the story of losing his virginity at VidCon. He was 18 years old, at Disneyland in the churro line, when a fan recognized and approached him. 

Later that night, Rock got on Grindr and was hit up by the same guy. Rock invited him to his room, and they sat on the bed. It escalated from there:

"He gave me a tour of all of his tattoos, and then, next thing I know, I found myself kissing my first boy. It was so romantic...until the bitch started eating my ass. He had a little bit of facial hair, and I did not know how to get my ass ate, so it tickled so much, more than it felt good. I was so overstimulated I kept clenching. He wasn't mad, though. He did his part, and then I was like, Girl, am I about suck dick for the first time right now?"

Spoiler alert: It was, and he found out he was really good at it. He goes on to describe bottoming for some huge Dominican dick in great detail, which you can read for yourself in his memoir. 

That's not even my favorite quote from him though. My favorite comes from his podcast DaBaddest Radio:

"Every time I close my eyes, I just see dick."

Speaking of bottoming, musician Troye Sivan has been giving us bottoming/gay sex anthems for a while now — his 2018 song Bloom has frequently been gaysplained in many WeHo bars to me as a song about bottoming. His latest record Something To Give Each Other is an incredible album, part of gay history, and full of lyrics alluding to gay sex. You've probably heard, "I feel the rush / addicted to your touch / Oh, I feel the rush" while your gay friend offered you poppers. 

He's talked about having sex with straight men, which inspired the song "One Of Your Girls" and its chorus "Give me a call if you ever get lonely / I'll be like one of your girls or your homies," and explained the darker side of the song:

"I think it really summarized how I ended up feeling about myself afterwards. Which is like, 'You're this experiment or like last resort. If you don't find a girl to hook up with, secretly call your gay friend Troye and he'll come over and do it for you.' It didn't really leave me feeling a good a lot of time."

Charlie Sheen is a Hollywood staple for sure. Besides being a good actor, he was known around town for three things: Sex, drugs. and scandal. The Netflix documentary aka Charlie Sheen has the famous actor re-visiting his problematic past with hindsight and sober (over eight years) eyes. In it, he also talks about his sex with men.

When he's asked if he's had sex with men, he said, "I flipped the menu over." I have to say, that is one of the hottest ways to say you've maybe ate a guy's ass before.

After the revelation that he 'experimented' with men in the documentary, he said, "It's fucking liberating... [to] just talk about stuff. A fucking piano didn't fall out of the sky. No one ran into the room and shot me."

He reveals that his sexual encounters with men started the harder he dug into his cocaine consumption. "That's what started it," he says. "That's where it was born, or sparked. And in whatever chunks of time that I was off the pipe, trying to navigate that, trying to come to terms with it — 'Where did that come from?' ... 'Why did that happen?' — and then just finally being like, 'So what?' So what? Some of it was weird. A lot of it was fucking fun, and life goes on."

Happy for you, Charlie. Flip me over anytime.

When asked by fellow queer musician Kevin Abstract if he was a top or bottom, Lil Nas X replied, "Power bottom." He continued, "We teach our bottoms to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to bottoms, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the top." He's referencing the Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie TED Talk that Beyoncé samples in "Flawless" (which, as a bottom, is such a bottom thing to do).

To clarify, "power bottom" is a term for someone (usually a gay man) who is on the receiving end during sex and does it with more control and assertiveness, or power. 

In one of my favorite Lil Nas X songs "Montero (Call Me By Your Name)" he sings: 

"Ayy, ayyI wanna sell what you're buyin'I wanna feel on your ass in HawaiiI want that jet lag from fuckin' and flyin'Shoot a child in your mouth while I'm ridin'"

He's talking about cumming while riding a dick, and I think anyone that has sex with men respects that lyric — not many men can get you to do that and that's just the truth.

On the subject of speaking your truth, let's talk about George Michael. The legendary singer rose to fame as one of two members of the pop duo Wham! ("Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go") and continued with his solo career after. He publicly came out as gay in a 1998 interview following his arrest after attempting to cruise an undercover police officer in a public bathroom in Los Angeles. He had previous experiences with women, though knew he was gay around the release of his Faith album, thrusting his song "I Want You Sex" in a total different light.

I think his lyrics to his 2002 song Freeek! are especially horny though — "You got yourself an ass with/ A mind of its own brings something to the party" is a wild lyric. And the chorus is particularly something that makes me want to, well, have sex with other men:

"I’ll be your sexual freak (freak)Of the weekI’ll be your inspirational brother (sister)Yo mama can’t you see

I'll be your sexual freakOf the week (Ooh touch it)I'll be your educational loverYour one fuck fantasy"

He's honestly ahead of his time. He even references his 1998 arrest in his song "Outside": 

"I think I'm done with the sofaI think I'm done with the hallI think I'm done with the kitchen table, baby

I love when people are unapologetically horny (and gay).

He's notoriously private and elusive about his life, though in 2012 released an open letter which talked about his first love, which was with another man. This was a huge moment as the musician was rising fast in the hip-hop/R&B scene and there were very few, if any, openly queer men in that genre. 

In 2016, he released the critically-acclaimed and widely-loved album Blonde. The first track Nikes ends with incredibly sensual lyrics that, given Frank's sexuality, are likely inspired about his relationships with other men:

"I may be younger but I'll look after youWe're not in love, but I'll make love to youWhen you're not here I'll save some for youI'm not him but I'll mean somethin' to youI'll mean somethin' tooI'll mean somethin' tooYou got a roommate he'll hear what we doIt's only awkward if you're fuckin' him too"

Since he's private about his personal life, his deeply personal lyrics feel like a voyeuristic peek into his adventures with men.

You may know him as a straight scarecrow, though The Wicked and Bridgerton star is openly gay actor. He's private when it comes to his personal life, though he starred in the limited series Fellow Travelers. And it had a lot of sex scenes with his co-star Matt Bomer. Bailey said of the series, “You can’t tell the queer love story and not show how the sex is so intrinsic," he said. “It definitely was the first time that I’ve seen a light being shown on the roles within a gay relationship and power and status with being submissive and dominant.”

He continued, “If you exist in the same body, how you negotiate that and what that means, being submissive, and well, really what is kink…. It’s all a thing. I just think it’s a really hearty and honest examination of something which I know I’ve always yearned to see properly explored.”

The Big Brother alum and older brother of Ariana Grande is known for his effeminacy. And proud of it. Which he should be! He also makes music and released a music video last year for his song Boys, which he says is a "power bottom anthem."

He went on to say, "Even if you’re in [the gym] to have sex with another man, you still have to be masculine presented. You cannot be feminine in those settings. And so, I wanted to reclaim that space for the queer fem. To re-own ‘power bottom’. It’s like, we do most of the work, bitch. Do you know what I’m saying?”

It's safe to say that Frankie is the gayest Frank on this list...for now. 

In his memoir House of Hidden Meanings, RuPaul Charles recounts how at 19 years he was catcalled by another Black man his age named John Wayne who exuded a "tradition of masculinity — the ultimate man's man." He continues to describe their short-lived fling with great detail: 

"We spent the rest of the day together, and soon we were sneaking off to my mother's house when nobody else was there to hook up. We had sex in the back of her Volvo in Balboa Park. I picked him up at the navy base, and once, I remember, I met up with him Los Angeles at a pink church on Vermont Avenue where was getting out of some kind of service. We had sex there, too, in the parking lot, in the back of the car."

The hot priest from Fleabag came out as gay in 2013 and is otherwise highly private when it comes to his personal life. However, when discussing the same-sex scenes with co-star Paul Mescal in the 2023 film All of Us Strangers, Scott said, "Sex is...a way of communicating. It's physical communication. It's also verbal communication. You have to sort of improvise...and listen with your body. I'm very proud of those scenes because they tell a story very well. 

He continued, "I think sort of tenderness between two men, in particular, is radical." It's so refreshing to hear about gay sex talked like this that it's actually kind of hot.

The Rocketman is a music and gay icon. He's opened the doors for so many performers that came after him. He's also horny just like us! In his 2019 memoir Me, he writes about how his coke habit made him hard and perverted (girl, same):

“I was an observer, a voyeur. I’d kind of set up my perversion, have two or three guys doing things for me to watch,” he writes. “That was where my sexual pleasure came from, getting a bunch of people who wouldn’t normally have sex with each other, to have sex with each other.” 

There's more (I know): "I just watched, took Polaroids, organized things. The only problem was that I was incredibly houseproud, so they’d end up having sex on the snooker table with me shouting, ‘Make sure you don’t come on the baize!’ which tended to puncture the atmosphere a bit.” 

And to that I have to say: Sir, put a towel down.

When Ricky Martin came out in 2010, I was kind of shook. He had a huge part in my gay awakening growing up, and I know I'm not the only one. I just had to include him in this list, and I think the way he describes his sexuality is kind of hot:

“I am gay,” he said, “Men fascinate me. But I like to enjoy sex in total freedom, so I’m open to having sex with a woman if I feel desire...[but] men are my thing."

Marlon Brando is one of the best actors of all time and is considered part of the Golden (or Olden lol) Age of Hollywood, and it's easy to see why — besides being a great actor, he really exuded raw sexuality. There are many accounts of him having sex with so many women and a good number of men, too (including Richard Pryor, according to Pryor's widow). Brando stated himself: "Like a large number of men, I, too have had homosexual experiences, and I am not ashamed.

I can't find the direct source on this, so take this with a squirt of salt: When Truman Capote asking Brando if he was having an intimate relationship with another male cast member during the production of A Streetcar Named Desire, he admitted it. 

"He said he went to bed with lots of other men, too, but that he didn't consider himself a homosexual. He said they were all so attracted to him and that he 'just thought that I was doing them a favor.'"

And you know, what he did! He was easily one of the sexiest men ever. And it's good to know that he was one of the sluttiest, too.