“I realized he would continue doing that as long as I was around to take it.”

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"On a bright note, my boyfriend now has never even raised his voice at me. At every opportunity, he tries to make the choice that would make me feel the safest, loved and respected. If your current partner is showing that they don't care about you, leave. There's a better life out there for you. I've never felt luckier than I do now."

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger as a result of domestic violence, call 911. For anonymous, confidential help, you can call the 24/7 National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or chat with an advocate via the website.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, you can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE, which routes the caller to their nearest sexual assault service provider. You can also search for your local center here.