A Missouri woman called The Ramsey Show recently, looking for advice on how to deal with family members who won’t stop asking for money.

April from St. Louis said her sister and her parents are in financially precarious situations, while she is debt-free and has a net worth of about $3 million (1). She asked how to “define a line of being generous without becoming the family bailout.”

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Co-hosts Rachel Cruze and John Delony said that when it comes to financially irresponsible family members, it’s all about boundaries.

April and her husband are in a solid financial position. They’re debt-free and have a $3 million net worth. She said that when she was younger, she realized how much she was spending on interest from credit cards, auto loans and student debt.

“I took on second jobs to get myself to a position, between 25 and 32, of being debt-free and then starting to invest,” she said.

Her family is a different story.

April said her sister, who has two kids, is “on the brink of bankruptcy.” April bought her a car last year, but it recently broke down. Now she’s giving her sister her old car and buying a new one.

Her parents, meanwhile, “did not plan for their retirement.” They live off of Social Security and are struggling because they’ve “taken on more debt than they can actually pay.” Her father does food delivery for an app company, but they “can’t really pay their bills, so they come to me quite often to help out.”

She also said that her parents have filed for bankruptcy twice and gone through foreclosure, adding that she sat down with them in the past and worked on budgets. But the next month, they disregarded the planning.

“We’ve gone through several conversations about how they can do better and what we can do to set them on the right path,” April said.

Delony said that April needs to accept one key reality:

“Nothing you can say or do is going to change how your parents act. That ship has sailed,” he said. “You have to decide, what are you going to contribute out of a spirit of generosity ... but we’re done trying to teach.

“As for your sister, maybe you say, ‘This is the last time I bail you out unless you want to do a budget with me.’”

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Helping family members who’ve fallen on hard times can seem like a no-brainer, especially if you’re financially secure.

But consistently bailing out relatives who don’t change their habits can strain both your finances and your relationships. There’s a difference between a one-time helping hand and becoming a regular source of support (2).

The financial impact is the most obvious. Depending on your situation, helping family could make a small dent or a gaping hole in your long-term goals. If you feel obligated to step in, take a hard look at your own finances and what that support will cost you. If it comes at the expense of your emergency savings or retirement, it may be time to reconsider.

There’s also the risk that help can actually hurt. As April noted, she feels guilty that he family isn’t learning from its mistakes. If someone knows a bailout is always coming, they’re less likely to change. In that case, you may be enabling them rather than helping (3).

Sometimes, the only option is to set a firm boundary and stop offering financial support.

That conversation can be difficult. From their vantage point, you may seem more than able to help, and they may even feel entitled to your money.

If a family member is consistently irresponsible, especially if they prioritize wants over needs, they’re unlikely to stop asking for help. They may not see themselves as responsible for their situation, which can make them more likely to push back if you say no.

For some people, continuing to help may feel like the right choice. But it can affect your long-term finances and create tension at home, especially if you share a bank account with a partner. As the co-hosts said, April’s situation could lead to resentment from her husband if the pattern continues.

And over time, repeatedly lending money can strain the relationship with the family member you’re trying to support.

If you decide to stop helping financially, it’s worth planning that conversation and preparing for the possibility that they will be upset with you.

Consider setting a clear timeline for when the financial help will end. Be honest about how helping has affected your own finances and relationships. Outline what you’ve already contributed, and offer other forms of support, such as helping them build a budget or connecting them with a financial advisor.

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