"I am currently involved in two polyamorous relationships. I date two different men who are both married to other women. The wives know, and we all get along, but as far as my child knows — I am happily single."

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"Fast forward, before she died, we got really cool. She would come over and chill, and I would do her nails. So, we were cool and made real peace before she passed. But I just don’t know how to tell our oldest this story, like, when he starts adding it up, do I just be honest or like say they were separated!? He and I are REALLY close, he is my son basically, so I don't want to mess that relationship up with something from my past. I struggle with this, but he may never ask, let’s hope he doesn’t because shit is going to get awkward af 🫣🫠😬."

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